踏入社會才明白的道理，句句實用，趕緊收藏

1、學會自我保護，剛見一次面就問你有沒有物件，這種人最好別交往。

Learn self-protection， just meet a face to ask if you have a partner， this kind of person had better not associate。

2、別用你的秘密去交換一段友情。

Don‘t trade your secret for a friendship。

3、如果一個人總是跟你炫耀以前的成績，不能證明他多厲害，只能說明他現在混得太差。

If a person always shows off his previous achievements to you， it can’t prove how good he is， but it can only show that he is too bad now。

4、不要遇人就抱怨你的不幸遭遇，沒幾個人會真正關心你的悲歡。

Don‘t complain about your misfortune when you meet someone。 Few people will really care about your joys and sorrows。

5、做人要給對方留點餘地，不要搶掉所有的功勞，不要得理不饒人。

To be a man， you should leave some room for the other party， don’t take all the credit， and don‘t be unreasonable。

6、教育你越兇的人，對你越在乎。

The more vicious people educate you， the more they care about you。

7、朋友只是朋友，沒有必要刻意討好。不合理的要求果斷拒絕，不想參加的聚會果斷退掉。

Friends are just friends， there is no need to please。 Unreasonable requirements to resolutely refuse， do not want to participate in the party decisively back。

8、多說好話，多做好事。

Say good words and do good deeds。

9、誤解了某個人，要第一時間道歉，人與人之間的失望都是積攢出來的，別等到最後，什麼都晚了。

If you misunderstand someone， you should apologize at the first time。 The disappointments between people are accumulated。 Don’t wait until the end。 Everything is too late。

10、適當的麻煩別人，可以增進感情。

Proper trouble to others can enhance feelings。

11、和別人吃飯別玩手機，要玩回家玩。和別人發信息別發語音，要發對自己發。

Don‘t play with cell phones when you eat with others。 Play home。 Don’t send a message with others， but send it to yourself。

12、不管去誰家裡做客，最好帶上小禮物，禮輕情意重，即使是一些水果，都能讓主人感受到你的心意。

No matter who you go to， you‘d better bring a small gift。 The gift is light and the affection is heavy。 Even some fruits can make the host feel your heart。