【投資學堂】親本投資：一個親本投資概念，是什麼樣的基因？！

親本什麼意思

男人喜歡拈花惹草，這個到底是天性呢還是地位和財富的衍生品？大機率結論就是男人都屬於這一款。而女人呢，卻喜歡天長地久、喜歡被人追、被人寵、被人疼愛的感覺。而且這好像也不是美女的專屬，幾乎每個女人都有這樣的需求。

男人和女人的這些特點似乎從古到今、從東到西、從權貴到平民……都是一樣的。如此看來，這些特點的形成不是外界因素的干擾所致，而是內在的基因才是最根本的決定因素。

追根溯源居然挖出了“親本投資”這個概念，說實話以前真的沒有聽過這個詞，現在終於知道說的是啥了！核心概念是“投資”，而且特指繁衍這個過程中兩性細胞的投資。理論推導，投資多的一方就具有話語權；而投資少的一方呢，在同類的競爭中就更為激烈。繁衍，需要的是雄性的精子細胞和雌性的卵子細胞才能成功，基本上是一個精子與一個卵子結合成受精卵才能實現繁衍。這個過程中，精子是一個非常非常小的細胞，而卵子卻是一個相當相當大的細胞。所以說繁衍雄性屬於小的投資方，而雌性就是大的投資方。

用投資理論來理解，顯而易見作為大的投資方，貢獻卵子的雌性，只要願意就有非常大的機會繁衍成功。所以，女人與生俱來就具有更多的話語權和選擇權，天生就有權選擇她喜歡的物件，而且喜歡被追逐和寵愛！所以，不要覺得女孩喜歡高富帥就沒素質，人家有選擇的資本，而且從出生那天起就決定了。作為投資少的一方，精子的貢獻者，為了能成功實現繁衍，就需要有更多的靈活性，需要更多的嘗試和努力，而且在同類中會出現相當激烈的競爭。所以，男人總是喜歡去撩各種各樣的妹子，幻想三妻四妾，不能只說人品有問題，還有一些是大自然的作用！

如此，用“親本投資”的理論這麼梳理下來，一下子覺得大自然真是可愛又公平。當下一夫一妻的規則下，要獲得高質量的婚姻，也要遵循“親本投資”的理論。老婆面對老公這個天天想成功而又沒有資本的小投資方，要想讓對方放棄拈花惹草的天性，就需要提供更多的繁衍機會。而老公面對老婆這樣的豪氣大股東，為了不被漏選，那就要不斷讓自己優秀，不斷貢獻財富，最重要的是要持續甜言蜜語地哄著大股東開心，永遠如同初戀一般對待自己的老婆！在這個理論的指導下工作，一夫一妻制的婚姻大機率就是高質量的了！

質量就在我們身邊，現在終於知道為啥夫妻倆床頭吵架床尾和，還有為啥錯的永遠是老公、被哄的永遠是老婆了吧！都是“親本投資”搞的事，誰讓老婆天生就是大股東呢！

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Is it nature or a derivative of status and wealth that men love to philander？ The high probability is that all men fall into this category。 Women， on the other hand， like everlasting， like to be chased， be loved。 And it seems that this is not only suitable for beauty， for almost every woman has this need。

These characteristics of men and women seem to have existed from ancient times to the present， from east to west， from the powerful to the common people。。。。 It‘s all the same。 In this way， the formation of these characteristics is not caused by external factors interference， while internal genes are the most fundamental determinants。

I actually dug up the concept of “parent investment”。 To tell the truth， I have never heard this word before。 Now I finally know what it is！ The core concept is “investment，” and specifically the investment of bisexual cells in the process of reproduction。 Theoretically， the party with more investment has the right to speak； And the side that invests less， in the same kind of competition， they are competed scarce resources。 To reproduce， you need the sperm cells of the male and the egg cells of the female。 Reproduction takes place when a sperm and an egg are combined to form a fertilized egg。 In this process， the sperm is a very， very small cell， while the egg is a very， very large cell。 So in reproduction， the male is the small investor， and the female is the big investor。

Using investment theory， it’s clear that as a big investor， a female who contributes eggs has a very good chance of succeeding if she wants to。 Therefore， do not think that girls who like gaofu shuai have no quality。 Girls have a choice， and it‘s decided from the day they are born。 As the less invested side， sperm contributors need more flexibility and effort in order to successfully reproduce。 And there will be considerable competition among the same species。 Therefore， men always like to flirt with all kinds of girls， fantasy three wives four concubines， and it’s not only the character problem， but also influenced by nature！

So， after combing through the theory of “parent investment”， I think nature is really lovely and fair。 Under the current rules of monogamy， it is also necessary to follow the theory of “parental investment” in order to achieve a high-quality marriage。 In the face of a small investor who wants to be successful every day but has no capital， a wife needs to provide more reproductive opportunities if she wants him to give up his philandering nature。And in the face of such a big shareholder wife， in order not to be omitted， the husband will continue to let them excellent， continue to contribute to the wealth。 The most important thing is to continue to use sweet words to coax the major shareholders， and always treat his wife as the first love general！ Under the guidance of this theory， monogamous marriage is likely to be of high quality！

Quality is all around us。 I now finally know why husband and wife quickly make up， why the wrong one is forever husband， why the one to be coaxed is forever the wife！ It‘s all because of parental investment。Because the wife is born a major shareholder！

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